13/09/2011

REGRET-FREE

Fools think their own way is right, but the wise listen to others.

Proverbs 12:15

 
Why close relationship was not end up with happiness? Some relationships end up with broken heart. How do we face the regret-free relationship? Let’s start with surrender all we have onto God. Deeply surrender to God and listen to the others like wise man listen and speak to others. Let me share a few ways how to facing up the broken relationship but then end up with regret-free living after all.

 
STOP>>> ‘look at it thoroughly, look at it honestly’

We need to stop when we are about to end up the relationship. We need to stop when the relationship is end up with breaking up. Why we have to stop? Let me give an example, whenever we take a test at school or college, we stop for a moment and bring into the present all the knowledge, and understanding we’ve collected in the past. That is why we have to stop. We need to think thoroughly at the point of the problem in our relationship. We need to think honestly the mistake that we done in our relationship. But do remember, stopping is not breaking up your relationship. All we need is time space to think and evaluating our relationship. The very best way to do this is step back a while and ask God to help us see what we’re too small and weak to grasp ourselves. Our human perspectives can’t begin to compare with what God can show us.

 
TALK TOGETHER>>> ‘the missing piece of relationship’

We just don’t want to face regret for the rest of our life. That is why we have to face the fact that we were wrong. Then pull that fact into the in front of our mind and take some time demand any way to talk with our significant individual. They might be our couple like spouse, family, friends or couple.

If you are feeling regret about something in your relationship, please tell them how you feeling bad. Let the feeling flow out from the honestly deepest heart of you and let the people know about that feeling. Let the people do for what people enjoy doing for others, RELIEVING SOMEONE REGRET. So we will regret-free living forever.

 
Have a blessed day.

GOD ALWAYS BE WITH US, AMEN!

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